Bitter...Sweet & Generational Healing
- Jul 17
- 2 min read
Hello beautiful bitterness, I see you rearing up as a defense mechanism, offering me your shield to defend boundaries crossed in my youth. All the times I surrendered my voice under the guise of being the peacekeeper and the one who was groomed to “take the higher road”. Bitterness as a shadow, boy do I know this well and I see the genetic pattern.
Years ago when I began to dive into the emotional elements that inspire our growth — which are plentiful — I identified bitterness as a shadow that I was ready to shift. I could feel a cellular reaction when bitterness wanted to take the lead, it was like a dam that was about to burst inside of me ready to unleash years of holding back my truth and biting my tongue.
I could see this emotional pattern playing out with my Grandma as well, in fact, it was seeing the active role that bitterness was playing in my Grandma’s relationship exchanges that helped me see how bitterness had weaved a pattern into my own experiences.
Right then, I knew that I wanted to capture why bitterness wanted a leading role in my life, so I gave bitterness a voice and went down the path of discovery. What was I needing to learn? What actions was I needing to take? How was I meant to grow? I dove into my inner work and discovered the wonders and soul wisdom waiting to be claimed, for myself and for my lineage.
My Grandma is 94, healthy and strong! Sometimes she walks the healing path with me and a few days ago we had a profound breakthrough. My aunt texted me and asked for my help with my Grandma (what you also need to know is that on my end, I had been feeling stuck and had been asking my angels for their guidance and voila, my aunt texts!). When this text came through I could intuitively feel that a shift for my Grandma, a shift for myself and a shift for my lineage was on the horizon.
For paid subscribers, I will share the breakthrough that my ancestors and I just had!
And here’s how it went.
In love and Light, Rochelle Stanley
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